11 Kinky Sex Movies That Will Shock You
The male gaze, conventional camera angles, body parts in the exact frame where you would expect it — most sex scenes in mainstream movies are made as if they were copies, ignoring a variety of bodies, emotions, and sexual dynamics that occur in real life. Alisa Taezhnaya, a film critic, prepared a selection of films about kinky sexuality and compulsive sex in which fetishes and specific tastes play a significant role in the storyline and the DNA of the movie.
“Raw” (2016), directed by Julia Ducournau
Body horror with teenagers, animals, and cannibalism
Many people became familiar with Julie Ducourneau’s work after the latest Cannes Film Festival, where Titane (2021), to the surprise of many, won the Palme d'Or. The main character — who exterminates humans and has compulsive sex with machines — seems to be a reincarnation from Blade Runner and Cronenberg's early filmography. Things get even more interesting when you get to Ducourneau’s debut movie Raw — a feminist body horror about a young vegetarian girl’s first year at veterinary school. After the initiation ceremony for the newbies, older students force her and each of her classmates to eat a piece of raw rabbit kidney. The heroine discovers an insatiable craving for raw meat, both animal and human. Ducourneau weaves together the themes of a girl's traumatic coming-of-age, sexual awakening, body dysmorphia, and cannibalism, using animal lust for blood as an allegory for rebellion. It’s a riot of the body after living by someone else's rules and obeying to them.
“Piercing” (2018), directed by Nicolas Pesce
Where Ryu Murakami turns into a black BDSM comedy
BDSM themes are very difficult to adapt: A sentence here, a sentence there — congratulations, you are now the author of 50 Shades of Grey. Independent American director Nicholas Pesch films the creation of the Japanese genius Ryu Murakami and presents it tastefully and sarcastically, leaving little to no room for disappointing clichés. In the movie, the protagonist of Piercing, a married man with a newborn kid, tells his wife he’s going on a business trip — but in reality checks into a hotel in the same city to order a prostitute, whom he plans to kill before or during sex. He has long been plagued by insomnia, so all the steps of the murder were planned well in advance. It could have been the perfect murder, except the prostitute who shows up is just as much of a player, a manipulator, and a maniac. We get to see an erotic game intertwine with a psychological duel in which temptation, submission, play, and coercion alternate at such a pace that neither the heroes themselves nor we, the audience, have time to recover. All we can do is just observe those crazy kinky erotic scenes. Piercing is a rare piece of work that shows that BDSM is first and foremost about dynamics of power and mind games, and not the shallow stereotypical latex, heels, and ropes.
“Crash” (1996), directed by David Cronenberg
Deadly addiction to adrenaline, danger, and cars
This controversial metaphorical thriller, based on a book by a science fiction author James Ballard, shows us what actually transgressive sexuality and kinky sex mean. According to the plot, the main character grows apart from his wife. Their sexual life is only heightened by discussing the intimate details of their extramarital sex. He meets a group of car crash fetishists: with scars and injuries, they risk their lives every time, constantly raising the stakes — the more adrenaline and destruction, the greater the release. This eternal concept of overcoming isolation and emotional coma through seeking adrenaline is revealed in the story about codependency and life in a secret society. Crash is a poem about physical deprivation and merging with technology in search of human nature.
“Sleeping Beauty” (2011), directed by Julia Leigh
Elderly men sound asleep next to a young beauty
It is a kinky story about the eternal attraction of youth and the alienation of women from their sexuality. A young girl is in search of quick and good money: and surely, one of the offers leads her to sex work. The heroine agrees to work at a closed country club where she is going to be voluntarily sedated and sleep naked while male customers lie next to her. The club members can do almost any kinky stuff they want with the sleeping beauty, only penetration and violence are off limits.
The modern fairytale of the sleeping beauty dissects the objectification of women: behind the walls of a closed club, no one cares about the main character’s wellbeing, only her looks, and youth becomes a valuable currency for those who have no money. Where is the line between having sex with an unconscious person and necrophilia? Director Julia Lee tries to figure out the difference between the real estate of sleep and death through the story of a girl who resembles a statue.
“Boxing Helena” (1993), directed by Jennifer Lynch
Immobility as an addiction
An extreme BDSM story directed by the daughter of David Lynch, starring his leading lady Sherilyn Fenn (who is known as Audrey in Twin Peaks) as Helena. In this story, Helena — a girl who gets into a hit-and-run accident and injures her legs — becomes dependent on the man who saved her. The surgeon gradually amputates all of her limbs, including the healthy functioning ones. While she is completely physically dependent on him, Helena holds disdain for him. Jennifer Lynch carefully dissects the dynamics of power within a couple in a confined space where sexuality is expressed through hot and weird BDSM sex scenes. In quite an unexpected finale, Boxing Helena transforms into a control thriller that polishes away the horror of loss and suddenly unfolds into a very different story.
“Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!” (1989), directed by Pedro Almodóvar
Danger ahead: a romantic comedy about bondage and Stockholm syndrome
The early filmography of Pedro Almodovar is an unconventional sexuality galore: everything strange, unusual, queer, and unpredictable is put together by him in absurd plots of illogical and treacherously unexpected passion. In his stories, the characters of Crime Chronicle are portrayed as people from romantic comedies, and everything dangerous and sinister is presented as funny. This terrifying story of a porn star who is kidnapped and tied to a bed by her stalker is portrayed with the same irony. While the kidnapper, who has just been released from prison, is away from home, the actress suffering from Stockholm Syndrome lives on a leash and gradually gives up on the idea of escaping to save herself.
By sarcastically romanticizing abusive relationships, Almodovar only further deconstructs bourgeois clichés about BDSM sex, the seductive power of rape fantasies, crimes of passion, and the feelings of people on the verge of a mental breakdown, thus making this movie one of the kinkiest movies of all time.
“In the Realm of the Senses” (1976), directed by Nagisa Ōshima
Japan's premier shock film about fatal passion with suffocation and castration
The subject of sexuality, violence, and one’s emotional dependence on physical pleasure is central to the work of Nagisa Oshima, who has been making films since the 1960s. Among his politically conscious, oppositional films, In the Realm of the Senseshas become a mainstream superhit. The film is based on a true story of the legendary Japanese geisha Sady Abe: in the mid-1930s, she killed her lover by strangulation and, after castrating him, took his genitals "as a souvenir."
Oshima is not interested in the criminal subject matter: he interprets the criminal chronicle as a dialog in a closed room where two live in limbo of conversation, emotion, and unconventional sex, involving voyeurism, group sex, BDSM practices, and asphyxiation. The movie is full of NSFW moments. Its sexual themes and explicit scenes are something beyond any erotic and kinky scenes. The realm of the senses is a few rooms in a brothel where the main characters stay for years, losing themselves in a shared game. A frank and tragic film about merging and the inevitable mutual absorption, where the lines between “mine” and “theirs” become blurred and soon indistinguishable.
“Immoral Tales” (1973), directed by Walerian Borowczyk
Shameless Polish-French almanac on sexual taboos with anti-clerical sentiments
A real treasure from the 1970s and a wonderful film about kinky and taboo stories for anyone once impressed by Pasolini and Makaveev. Transgressive in plot and inhumanly beautiful in visuals. The plots of three of the film's four short stories are set in the past, of which two are based on real life people: Elizabeth Bathory and Lucrezia Borgia. Immoral Tales is a clear provocation, which made a lot of noise in the year of its release. It’s no wonder, since the film can still be called controversial today, imagine what it was like 50 years ago — stories of masturbation in religious euphoria, bathing in blood, incest, and lesbian sex...
There is a lot of male gaze, but it is all balanced out by the visuality of the new wave of Eastern Europe: Valerian Borovchik's film shows many of the techniques of the filmmakers from Poland and Czechoslovakia. From the framing and matching of costumes to the theatrical presentation and choreography the picture, Immoral Talesinterweaves sexual acts with the religious themes of sin, guilt, shame, and redemption. And even the legend of the mad countess is presented in an unexpected way.
“Anatomy of Hell” (2004), directed by Catherine Breillat
Feminine "Nymphomaniac" 10 years before Lars von Trier
For most feminists and feminism sympathizers, the figure of Catherine Breuil is unknown and, we must say, totally unfair. Years, even decades before contemporaries began dissecting female sexuality, Breuil was making films about female desire and reflection on that desire. Anatomy of Hell is a dialogue drama practically confined to the room where two strangers, a woman and a man, meet and get to know each other. She is straight, he is gay.
The heroine offers him a deal: she'll pay for him to watch her. Brayat, who despises bigotry, takes on the male lead role of the porn star Rocco Siffredi and shows a lot of kinky sex scenes: from anal and period sex to voyeurism and penetration while sleeping.
The "scandalousness" of the sexual techniques only distracts Breuil's superficial viewers from a profound conversation between two strangers about the role of men and women in each other's lives, regardless of their sexual orientation.
“Liberté” (2019), directed by Albert Serra
Orgy under cover of the night for a group of 18th-century French libertines
The highest-ranking courtiers and those close to the king arrange a secret nocturnal meeting in the woods to try the forbidden and push the limits of control and pleasure. It is the end of the Baroque era, and the fetish practices penned by Marquis de Sade had to be hidden. The Catalan filmmaker Albert Serra shows us the lives of privileged Europeans several hundred years ago, conveying the language, pace, and aesthetics of physical communication from a completely different era.
Yet the underlying mood of Liberté, despite the kinky weird desires (that go from spanking to golden showers), is full of dull despair, weariness, and excess: Serra shows a closed club of the permitted, where freedom has nothing to do with sexual liberation and pleasure.
“The Wayward Cloud” (2005), directed by Tsai Ming-Liang
A crazy musical experiment from Taiwan about lust, pornography, and obsession with watermelons
Picture this: extreme heatwave in Taipei, the whole city is thirsty, and watermelons have become the most sought-after commodity and food. Old friends meet by chance — a girl and a boy (formerly a salesman, now a porn actor), and have an affair in the hot and stuffy city. Tsai Ming Liang spins an anti-pornography about physical turmoil, the nature of arousal of an entire city through the prism of one relationship. There are interspersing scenes of uneventful everyday life with crazy musical numbers, scenes from fictional porn movies, and sex in unpredictable situations.
Tsai Ming Liang's weird sex scene expressed through watermelon fetishism, is one of the most ingenious metaphors for a world full of lust. Thirst must be quenched. Tsai Ming Liang's collective orgy of peeping, public sex, and watermelon fetishism is one of the most ingenious metaphors for a world full of lust. Thirst must be quenched.
*This article was originally published in Russian.